Conscious Kink for Couples book – Kinky Sex and BDSM for Beginners

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Conscious Kink for Couples:
The beginner’s guide to using kinky sex and BDSM for pleasure, growth, intimacy, and healing

Conscious Kink for Couples - The beginner’s guide to using kinky sex and BDSM for pleasure, growth, intimacy, and healing - by Justice Schanfarber

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susana-frioni-portrait“This book is brilliant!  Insightful, thought-provoking and practical. I couldn’t put it down. I highly recommend Conscious Kink for Couples to anyone who is called to explore kink and BDSM as a pathway of intimacy, growth and healing.” ~ Susana Frioni, Love, Sex, Desire Events

 

“The world of Kink and BDSM has long existed in the shadows, surrounded in secrecy, silence and shame. In this book, Justice brings light to the dance of intimacy accessible melina-mariposathrough creative play and conscious kink, and invites the reader into a new possibility of sexuality, where BDSM and eroticism become a tool for deeper intimacy – both with our partners, and with our selves. Having had my own experiences of kink-gone-wrong, and knowing the deep damage that can be done when there isn’t genuine care, affection, and love for one’s partners, it’s refreshing to read the world of kink presented with such insight, through a conscious, mindful lens. An easy-to-read guide for beginners, with  helpful suggestions of things to try with your partners, this book humanises the titillating world of kink, examining the healing aspect of working with one’s shadows with one’s lovers. Even seasoned kinksters will find insight and value in this book.”
~ Mel Mariposa Cassidy, Relationship Coach & Writer

taro-joy-pic“Conscious Kink for Couples teaches a BDSM that goes far deeper than what you see in porn or sex shops. This is billed as a book for couples, but I would recommend it to anyone interested in Kink and BDSM as a healing practice. Justice knows that by recognizing our suppressed desires, we are able to become more complete human beings, and this book is certain to help those who are willing to go there! Bravo!” ~ Taro Joy, DJ/Producer

 

“Sane, clear, useful and inspiring guide for couples who want to break out david-cates-photoof their sexual routine but have been afraid to put their relationship at risk. Surprisingly, you may discover even deeper connection and emotional intimacy when you try these exercises. This book will help you explore your edges without losing your center. Highly recommended!” ~ David Cates, Sex Educator

 

mai-vu“BDSM is hot stuff! I know it, Justice Schanfarber knows it, and now you can know it too! Popular culture is full of misinformation and confusion about BDSM. Here’s a clear, honest voice to cut through the noise. Probably the best resource I’ve seen for people who want to explore kinky sex safely, responsibly, and of course, pleasurably. I may even start using Conscious Kink for Couples as a textbook for my advanced women’s coaching groups.” ~ Mai Vu, Hot Life Hot Love

 

Justice Schanfarber is a pioneer in couples therapy. Matt MoravaFor this book he throws himself into the depths of human sexuality, relationship, and love via the world of kink and BDSM, and he returns with concrete observations and fascinating symbolic insights for creating more conscious, connected, rich relationships. This is a must read for couples wanting to rekindle connection, and also for any individual wanting to push their edge of intimacy and eroticism. ~ Matt Morava, Business Coach & Professor of Organizational Development

 

Vera Zyla - Art of loving Vancouver“Conscious Kink for Couples is a wonderfully detailed book that educates, inspires and will welcome newcomers who want to walk consciously towards the world of kink. Justice has provided a great resource with this book, and one that really has no comparison. Check it out if you’re curious about kink and BDSM, and if you value conscious sex and intentional living.” ~ Vera Zyla, Sex educator & Co-owner at The Art of Loving boutique, Vancouver BC

 

Learn to use kinky sex and BDSM as an awareness practice for healing and growth (like you might use yoga, meditation, or martial arts).

~ Bring more awareness, creativity, and intention to your sex life.

~ Reconcile your “darker” sexual desires with the deep love and caring that is the foundation of your relationship.

~ Make a place for consensual Dominance and submission alongside equality and respect.

~ Confront the shame, doubt, or self-consciousness that thwarts or confuses you.

~ Get positive perspectives on kinky topics like dirty talk, humiliation, objectification, role-play, bondage, exhibitionism, voyeurism and more.

~ Become more sexually playful and imaginative.

~ Deepen intimacy and eroticism.

~ Hear other couples’ surprising and inspiring stories.

 

“Kinky sex and BDSM can provide much more than carnal kicks. With the insights and practices in this book, you can use kink and BDSM as you might use other growth or awareness practices like yoga, meditation, or martial arts.

Conscious Kink is an unusual path because it combines explicit sexuality with healing and personal growth, and it does so in a way that welcomes the so-called negative or dark aspects of life, relationships, and self.

While most contemporary personal growth and healing practices emphasize positivity, ascension, and all things light, Conscious Kink is largely a practice of descent. We drop down into earthiness… into our darkness… into murky lower chakra stuff, and we come back to the surface changed. This practice runs contrary to much of what we are socialized to accept and cultivate in ourselves and in our relationships.

Conscious Kink provides a channel for our repressed hungers, and allows us to connect with and through our more troubling desires.

Conscious Kinky Couples feel a calling to challenge themselves by confronting their erotic sadomasochism, their need for control or being controlled, or even their shame.

Perhaps you’re just now building courage to broach the subject of kinky sex and BDSM with Campbell River Counselling - Justice Schanfarberyour partner, to begin having what you imagine will be difficult conversations. Or maybe you’re having a hard time internally reconciling your darker fantasies and desires with your ideas about love and what it means to be in a healthy, caring relationship.

If you’re called to kink, but you’re not sure how to incorporate it into your life, and if you value conscious living, this book is for you.” ~  Justice Schanfarber

Buy the book –

Conscious Kink for Couples:
The beginner’s guide to using kinky sex and BDSM for pleasure, growth, intimacy, and healing

Conscious Kink for Couples book - The beginner’s guide to using kinky sex and BDSM for pleasure, growth, intimacy, and healing - Justice Schanfarber

Buy the book now (digital download – pdf – approximately 125 pages)
$25 USD.

BUy now button

You’ll be taken to a secure PayPal checkout page to pay, and then immediately re-directed to the download page to get your book.
I’ll also email you a link to the download page once I am notified of your payment.
If you have any trouble you can email or call me directly.
email justice@justiceschanfarber.com
phone 778 996-3821

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