Justice Schanfarber

I can help you understand and appreciate yourself in ways that accelerate your growth and success.

Over a decade of experience helping hundreds of clients worldwide informs my work.

To know and love yourself fully is the hidden aspiration behind all ambition. Beyond every achievement is the desire to rest easy in the knowledge of your basic goodness, to know your intrinsic worthiness and your absolute lovability, and to enjoy an unconditional sense of purpose and belonging. An awakened soul can never be satisfied with anything less, and there is no better source of inspiration and guidance for anyone who wants to accomplish great things in this world.

Have you reached this insight yet? Or are you still trying to motivate yourself with force?

Unconditional self-love is synonymous with well-being, clarity, satisfaction and joy, and it is the ultimate embodiment of true success.

It is the reward many of us have been blindly and passionately reaching for, and is the foundation for enjoying everything that you might accomplish or obtain in this world, material or otherwise. With it, all is well. Without it, contentment remains just out of reach.

Would you like an easy-going, loving relationship with yourself, one that requires no sacrifice and does not hinge upon performance, achievement, or validation and agreement from others?

Unconditional self-love isn’t complicated or difficult. It arises spontaneously when you provide the right conditions, because it is your true nature.

Unconditional self-love can be compatible with therapy and the various personal development and healing journeys we undertake, but it does not depend on these things. It is not won through self-improvement or hard work (in fact, these things can become obstacles). It is the most basic, most natural, and simplest way of understanding your life purpose and being in right relationship with yourself.

I worked as a therapist and counsellor specializing in marriage and relationships for over a decade, and over the course of my career I earned a worldwide reputation as an expert in my field, helping hundreds of individuals and couples across the globe. (You can see the culmination of this work here, and I still work with select couples who want to improve their relationship through the methods I teach.)

A number of years ago I came to the clear realization that no amount of conventional couples counselling or relationship therapy can deliver results as valuable as those that come with understanding and enriching the primary relationship with Self. When you attend to your self-love and emotional development correctly, relationship issues tend to resolve themselves.

Today, I teach only one thing, though I approach it from many directions. We each become ready for unconditional self-love in our own unique way, and because I know this territory so intimately, both personally and professionally, I am able to guide all kinds of people on their personal path toward befriending themselves completely and being nothing but kind and gentle with themselves always. It is from here that the next chapter of satisfaction and success begins for anyone who has become ready.

I provide initial short-term consulting in the form of four scheduled weekly telephone calls. After this, we may choose to continue working together on a month-to-month coaching basis for as long as you are receiving benefit. For some of my clients, I have become a long-term personal mentor on their journey of self-love, self-empowerment, and self-discovery.

Expect our conversations to deliver practical insights that easily translate into actionable clarity for real world results. These weekly dialogues will provide intellectual satisfaction and emotional soothing, and will give you the tools you need to be your most effective, best self so that you can thrive in any situation, relationship, or life context.

As one long-term client recently reported –

EVERYTHING in my life has been improved by prioritizing being kind to myself and enjoying myself. Learning what this actually means, practically speaking, has been one of the most illuminating and satisfying experiences of my life, and of my sessions with you so far. I honestly had no idea how much room there was for improvement in my day-to-day attitude and approach to life, but our weekly calls have me leveling up constantly and I can see that there’s no limit to this feeling of expansion and growth. I had bought in to this popular idea that “growth is hard”, and it’s so refreshing to learn an easier way.

If you are interested in working with me, request a client information package by email. Please include your country of residence.

email: justice@justiceschanfarber.com

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