Twenty years of experience working with couples as a therapist and counselor inspired my P2 Power Couple Coaching Program.
Power Couple Coaching unlocks the synergy between two people. It gets energy flowing between you, mentally, physically, and emotionally.
Couples therapy or marriage counseling is generally expected to be hard work, and it often is.
Power Couple Coaching offers an easier, gentler approach, and it can be more effective and enjoyable for some people.
The key is a focus on your personal development and self-realization as individuals.
When you attend to your personal development within the context of your relationship, in view of your partner, and they do the same, a powerful bond of mutual respect is formed. I’ve watched it happen many times, and it transforms the people involved, opening up fresh new possibilities for a relationship to grow.
Conventional marriage counseling or couples therapy seeks to create understanding, stability, and well-being through partner negotiation and mutual validation.
It promotes compromise, emphasizes needs, and tends to reinforce dependency. This is appropriate for some people at some stages of relationship.
By contrast, P2 Coaching promotes synergy, emphasizes desire, and reinforces personal sovereignty, responsibility, integrity, and choice.
Power Couple Coaching cultivates understanding, stability, and well-being in each individual first, rather than between partners. The emphasis is on understanding your own thoughts, feelings, and behavior, and bringing yourself into alignment with your highest vision of your Self. From here, clarity between partners flows more easily and naturally.
One of my guiding principles comes from Buckminster Fuller: “You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.”
When two people in relationship are each embodying a stable, direct connection to Self, old patterns of conflict and doubt become obsolete, and a new model of togetherness can spontaneously arise.
Of course, all of us embark on our relationship journey before we understand any of this. We carry old wounds, attachments, and projections with us, often from one relationship to the next.
We’re not supposed to have ourselves all figured out before we fall in love, get married, start a family, and the rest of it. The understanding and insight come as we make ourselves ready. It’s a process, a journey.
My expertise is guiding this journey and helping with the process.
Like all of my offerings, P2 Coaching is based on The Schanfarber Method, which rests on four powerful assertions:
- Your existence is proof of your worthiness, your belonging, and your success.
- Your life on earth is meant to be a creative act, a successful venture, and a journey of joyful discovery. Your true nature is joy, and your purpose is to thrive and enjoy your life until it’s time to return to your non-physical source, a return which is best celebrated and acknowledged as part of a perfect design.
- You are simultaneously a temporary physical body, and an infinite aspect of all that is, all that has been, and all that is becoming.
- You are the living face of an ever-expanding universe, and a creator at the leading edge of reality.
Learning to love and understand yourself, and not trying to extract love and understanding from others, is the foundation of an enjoyable and functional love life.
Build it for yourself first, and then attract it and watch it flow to you. The alternative is endless anxiety and frustrated striving.
My P2 Power Couple Coaching Program provides a higher perspective, roots-up approach to improving relationships, and a high-vibe, first-hand knowledge of what a relationship can be.
Power Couple Coaching views individual clarity and personal well-being as primary, and it focuses on developing these before it approaches the shared experience between partners. This helps transcend the dead-end patterns of “I don’t know” and “What do you think?”
It puts you in the driver’s seat of your own life, preparing you to attend to yourself and your creations.
You can bring any topic to our sessions. Nothing is off limits, and you will be treated with utmost respect. I know your potential and purpose. It is unconditional joy and well-being. I know your true nature. It is love.
I hold this vision throughout our interactions, and I gently nudge you toward it at every opportunity.
To request a client package, please email me. I help client couples worldwide, so it’s helpful if you include your country of residence.
(Note: This program is suitable for individuals as well as couples.)